We have mentioned it many times before … communication is an important key to training. In order for you to be a safe place for your kids to come for accountability, there must be constant communication about the topic of dating. Many parents are scared to discuss their teen’s relationships because everything looks so different today. Many parents may also have a hard time getting their teen to open up about this topic. Especially if you are trying to create this open atmosphere late in the game, it may be difficult. We must consistently pursue our kids. This is where the concept of “dating” our children is very helpful. Going out to eat, coffee, or somewhere that is not your house may help to open the doors of communication in a neutral environment. One parent with one child…. like on a date. Setting this time up with your child weekly will help build the communication routine. If it’s not on the calendar it won’t happen. Make sure that you don’t go into these times with an “agenda.” This is a time just to be with and talk to your child. Communication about what is going on will come out with time. You can’t force it.