Raising a Child with a Grateful Heart By Example
We said yesterday that gratitude is either caught or taught. The first way that we can train our kids to have a grateful heart is by example. Paul tells us in Philippians 4:11-13, “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” Is this a verse we can use to define our lives? Gratitude for what we have be given defines a life of contentment. When our children observe us in our daily life do they see this about us, or do they see someone who is always striving to have the next thing? It is very easy in this culture to feel the need to one up the people around us with the things we have.
One way to live a life of contentment with what God has provided for us is to serve those around us. If we are serving wherever there is a need then it allows us to be others focused. Look for places to serve others. Make it a family event to give back to those around you. Giving your children the opportunity to serve and to watch you serve is an invaluable lesson. Look for that opportunity this holiday week!