Learning About Your Spouse and Physical Intimacy
Make sure to take the time to learn your spouse. Are they the kind of person who likes surprises or do they need time in advance to adjust to ideas? When planning activities to help get out of a rut learning this may be key, to not only actually getting out and doing them but making sure that both spouses enjoy the process. This is even something that you can sit and do together. Together you can process through a list of things that would be fun to do as a family or on date night. If both spouse are involved in this process then both can be excited and looking forward to these activities. Then make sure to put the list on the family calendar.
You can never be married to long to bring romance back into the marriage relationship. Sexual intimacy is something that you only share with your spouse. It is special and sacred that is why it is also something that should not be ignored. For more on this topic click here to hear the series on romance in marriage.